Why perfection is killing your vlogs


Have you ever felt like you needed to be perfect to start something new?

When I started vlogging or just started my YouTube channel in general, I thought that was the key, polished edits and perfectly crafted words.

I wanted to be the “perfect host,” the kind of creator who always had it together.

But over time, and especially this year, I’ve realised that perfectionism isn’t the goal. In fact, it’s holding creators back. It was certainly holding me back.

Imagine this, you’re at a dinner party...

The host is giving a speech, trying way too hard to impress. Every word is rehearsed, every story feels overly polished, and you’ve mentally checked out.

But then there’s the person next to you, relaxed, sharing real experiences, laughing at their own missteps. Who would you rather listen to?

That’s the shift happening in vlogging right now, and it’s something I’ve embraced. Vlogging isn’t about presenting a flawless experience anymore; it’s about connection, sharing the highs, the lows, the good, the bad, and even the messes in between.

Here’s why this shift matters so much:

1️⃣ It Lowers the Barriers to Entry. You don’t need expensive gear (an action camera will do) or flashy edits to start vlogging. What matters is connecting with people by being genuine, relatable, and vulnerable.

2️⃣ It Builds a Loyal Community. It’s not about having the biggest audience but a community that trusts you, learns from you, and relates to you. That’s what I’m working toward, by sharing not just my wins but also the struggles and behind-the-scenes moments.

This shift isn’t just exciting for creators like me; it’s an opportunity for anyone thinking about starting a vlog. You don’t need to pretend to be perfect, just show up as yourself.

If you’ve been on the fence about starting a vlog, now is the perfect time.

Catch you later!

Tamara 😊

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